Chapter 6 is about two types of procedural knowledge; separatist and connected knowledge. Connected knowers look to the self as an authority but also assumes other points of view could be right as well. They believe that experience is the most valuable learning experience. They want to learn from others by listening to their stories and using empathy to understand more about the world. These women are very trusting and believe in egalitarian ways of coexisting with others. They start out by finding interest in the facts of a person's story followed by their emotions. They are very much into their intuition which can seem overly emotional in some social situations. A lot of times these ladies refuse to judge others and are more interested in complying as a way of learning rather than conformity. These gals remind me of the yogi's I practice with daily. We all are so respectful and courteous of each others worth and experiences regardless of differences.
The other procedural knowledge belongs to the separatists. These people gain knowledge by doubting even themselves and everyone else. A lot of times these ladies are extremely suspicious of what feels right. These ladies are confident at auguring even out on a limb because they are skilled in logic and communications. They feel as though arguing with authority is especially safe because both parties are equally as confident. They would argue more with strangers than those close to them and would often take an impersonal stance. This can result in isolation of the self if they are overly argumentative though. I see myself as both of these persons described here. But not to any extreme.
Courtney,
ReplyDeleteDo you notice in this chapter that women value their relationships so much that they would rather NOT argue for fear of risking hurt to others?